Online therapy for sex, relationships and intimacy.
From desire that won't cooperate, to relationships that ran on control and what they leave behind.
Hi, I'm Georgia.
I work with sex and desire (mismatched desire, vaginismus, unreliable erections, kink), with relationships that run on power and control, and with what abuse and assault leave behind. I practise existential and humanistic psychotherapy, working relationally, with structured practical work on sex when it helps.
Sessions are fifty minutes by video, £50 to £80 on a sliding scale. I'm currently taking new clients, and you can book a 20-minute intro call first, to find out whether I'm the right fit before committing to anything.
I'm BACP-registered, and I came to this the long way round: frontline mental health, suicide prevention and adult crisis support, then the gender-based violence sector. That's where most of what I do now comes from.
I work in a sex-positive way, and nothing you bring is likely to faze me. You won't have to explain or defend who you are, or what you do, before we can begin.
Existential & humanistic psychotherapist (MA) · Registered Member of the MBACP (389177) · working under regular clinical supervision.
Some relationships run on control. Not all of them are romantic.
With a partner, it rarely looks like it does in the leaflets. More often it's small. You've got good at reading a mood from the sound of keys in the door. You tidy your phone before handing it over, not because there's anything on it, just because it's easier that way.
And sometimes it wasn't a partner at all. The friend who assaulted you and still turns up in the group chat. The boss who spent years teaching you to doubt your own judgement. Power doesn't need a bedroom to do damage.
Plenty of people carry this for years without calling it anything. That isn't denial, it's how power works. You don't need the right word before you come here, and you don't need to have left, reported it, or cut anyone off. Honestly, working out what to call it is often where we start.
Some people arrive long after it's over and can't understand why they're still braced. Why the second-guessing outlived the thing itself. That's work I do a lot of: getting your strength back, and the story. What actually happened, in your words, not theirs.
Abuse is rarely a single moment. It moves through power, relationship, and time. So does recovering from it.
Flexible, unhurried, and honest about what therapy can and can't do.
We meet by video, fifty minutes. Come weekly, fortnightly, or for occasional sessions by agreement. Early on we get clear on what you actually want to be different.
I work relationally, and bring in structured, practical work on sex and desire when it helps. When it doesn't, I won't pretend.
I'll be straight with you, keep clear boundaries, and tell you if someone else would be a better fit.
People usually arrive with something fairly specific.
Power and control sit at the centre of this practice. Most of what borders it comes through the door too, and plenty of people come just for the sex part.
Adults only. Not an emergency service; there's a line for that at the foot of the page.
A lot of this work is about sex.
Low or mismatched desire, vaginismus and painful sex, unreliable erections, delayed ejaculation, kink, non-monogamy, sex work, sexual shame, and reclaiming pleasure after assault. For women, men, non-binary and queer folk alike.
And it isn't all heavy. A lot of this work is practical, some of it is even fun, and none of it will raise an eyebrow.
Explored only as much as you want, and never assumed.
Sex-positive, kink-aware, queer-affirming, and sex-worker-affirming: your desires, relationships, and work aren't treated as problems or things you have to justify.
An Accredited Register accredited by the Professional Standards Authority.
Things people ask before they write.
I'm not sure my situation is serious enough.
That's the most common worry there is. You don't need a diagnosis, a crisis, or the right words. If something keeps nagging at you, that's reason enough.
Isn't it embarrassing, talking about sex with a stranger?
For most people, for about ten minutes. I do this all day; nothing you bring is likely to faze me, and you set the pace on what gets talked about.
I just want practical help with a sexual problem, not years of deep therapy.
That's fine, and common. Things like painful sex, unreliable erections and mismatched desire often respond well to structured, practical work. We do as much depth as is actually useful, and no more.
How does it work practically?
Video, fifty minutes. Weekly, fortnightly, or occasional sessions by agreement. £50 to £80 on a sliding scale where you choose what's workable, with concessionary places and no means test.
What's the intro call?
Twenty minutes to get a feel for each other. No forms, no commitment to continue. If I'm not the right fit, I'll say so and point you towards someone better placed.
The intro call is exactly what it sounds like: twenty minutes to get a feel for each other before you commit to anything.
Rather write first? info@onistherapy.com
A few lines about what's going on is plenty. I'll get back to you within a few working days.
Sessions are £50 to £80 for fifty minutes, on a sliding scale; you choose what's workable. I keep concessionary places for people on low or precarious incomes, including sex workers. Just say so when you write; there's no means test.
I also work behind the camera.
I consult to film and television productions on duty of care and contributor welfare: psychological screening before casting, support during filming, aftercare once it ends, and protocols that meet Ofcom's due-care requirements.
Most of my clinical work is about power, so I'm at my most useful on formats where the dynamics between people are the point. Production enquiries: info@onisweb.com.
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